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Ov\u0161em nepop\u00edr\u00e1m, \u017ee p\u0159i komunikaci s […]","datePublished":"2021-01-17","dateModified":"2023-05-19","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.bigbig.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.bigbig.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b682f75cb96d085fca5fbc8ca3f08e323444e236f6e6028585b73de81c46f711?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b682f75cb96d085fca5fbc8ca3f08e323444e236f6e6028585b73de81c46f711?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"bigbig.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.bigbig.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/starostliv%C3%A1_m%C3%A1ma0.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.bigbig.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/starostliv%C3%A1_m%C3%A1ma0.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.bigbig.cz\/udel-zeny-dokonala-manzelka-milenka-a-matka-uz-davno-ne\/","about":["Business"],"wordCount":484,"articleBody":"        Jak spolu mluvitAsi nev\u011b\u0159\u00edte, \u017ee bychom poch\u00e1zeli z rozd\u00edln\u00fdch planet. Ani j\u00e1 ne. Ov\u0161em nepop\u00edr\u00e1m, \u017ee p\u0159i komunikaci s partnerem m\u00e1m n\u011bkdy pocit, \u017ee mluv\u00edme rozd\u00edlnou \u0159e\u010d\u00ed. M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee nerozum\u00ed tomu, co mu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m a on zase nech\u00e1pe, co po n\u011bm chci. \u010c\u00edm to je? V\u011bt\u0161inou toti\u017e my \u017eeny ne\u0159ekneme na rovinu: Hele, jsem unaven\u00e1, m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 se dnes, pros\u00edm, postarat o d\u011bti a j\u00e1 si odpo\u010dinu? \u0158\u00edk\u00e1me, \u017ee jsme v pohod\u011b a \u017ee se nic ned\u011bje a \u010dek\u00e1me, \u017ee si partner v\u0161imne, nebo dokonce p\u0159e\u010dte na\u0161e my\u0161lenky a s\u00e1m od sebe n\u00e1m nab\u00eddne, \u017ee se o v\u0161e postar\u00e1, a\u0165 si odpo\u010dineme. P\u0159iznejme si, \u017ee ale ne jednu stranu nechceme odpo\u010d\u00edvat, chceme v\u011bd\u011bt, co se d\u011bje a tak trochu kontrolovat, jestli se partner star\u00e1 o d\u011bti opravdu spr\u00e1vn\u011b. Ruku na srdce, je to tak?P\u0159iznat slabost? Nikdy! Mo\u017en\u00e1 m\u00e1me strach p\u0159iznat nejen partnerovi, \u017ee pot\u0159ebujeme vypnout, \u017ee pot\u0159ebujeme restart, jinak se bl\u00e1zn\u00edme. \u017de n\u00e1s dny, kdy jsme zav\u0159en\u00e9 doma se sv\u00fdmi potomky, vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00ed, \u017ee pot\u0159ebujeme na vzduch mezi lidi, popov\u00eddat si s n\u011bk\u00fdm norm\u00e1ln\u00edm. Boj\u00edme se, \u017ee kdy\u017e to p\u0159izn\u00e1me, nebudeme dobr\u00e9 m\u00e1my. A kdy\u017e man\u017eelovi nep\u0159iprav\u00edme sva\u010dinu do pr\u00e1ce, nevypereme oble\u010den\u00ed, neuva\u0159\u00edme teplou ve\u010de\u0159i, nejsme dobr\u00e9 man\u017eelky. A co teprve, kdy\u017e ve\u010der nem\u00e1me s\u00edlu se milovat? Pak u\u017e nejsme ani dobr\u00e9 milenky. A selhali jsme ve v\u0161ech sv\u00fdch rol\u00edch. Ale pouze v na\u0161\u00ed hlav\u011b. Perfektn\u00ed \u017eena neexistuje. I my m\u00e1me pr\u00e1vo na to b\u00fdt unaven\u00e9, protivn\u00e9, n\u00e1ladov\u00e9, smutn\u00e9. M\u016f\u017eeme bre\u010det, sm\u00e1t se, tan\u010dit, k\u0159i\u010det, kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m zrovna chce.B\u00fdt samy sebouZkuste b\u00fdt samy sebou. Neohl\u00ed\u017eejte se po\u0159\u00e1d na to, co pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed ostatn\u00ed, vn\u00edmejte sebe a to, co zrovna pot\u0159ebujete vy. A u\u017e v\u016fbec se nechovejte tak, jak od v\u00e1s o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1 okol\u00ed. \u017dijte podle sebe a uvid\u00edte, jak\u00e1 p\u0159ijde \u00faleva. \u017de m\u00e1 va\u0161e d\u00edtko plenu ve dvou letech? \u017de s v\u00e1mi sp\u00ed v jedn\u00e9 posteli? \u017de ho nenut\u00edte p\u016fj\u010dovat sv\u00e9 obl\u00edben\u00e9 hra\u010dky? No a co? Je to v\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot a vy si jej m\u016f\u017eete \u017e\u00edt podle sv\u00fdch p\u0159edstav. A pokud byste pot\u0159ebovali pomoci, vyzkou\u0161ejte psychoterapii, kde \u0159eknete n\u011bco o sob\u011b DrahomiraSinova a terapeut v\u00e1s navede na tu spr\u00e1vnou cestu. Proto\u017ee psychoterapie nab\u00edz\u00ed svobodn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u017eivot.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         2.5\/5 - (2 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"\u00dad\u011bl \u017eeny: dokonal\u00e1 man\u017eelka, milenka a matka? U\u017e d\u00e1vno ne.","item":"https:\/\/www.bigbig.cz\/udel-zeny-dokonala-manzelka-milenka-a-matka-uz-davno-ne\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]